Interesting. it was a common interest in punk rock music and #2 just “let’s have a jam” then some further energy coming from that. Then I went an bought 3 pedals and a new guitar I’ll have to check out his fave band ( The Replacements) & learn I reckon to keep him interested .Sounds like that drummer is quite focussed on goal #3. If he is the (informal) leader of the group, he might get what he wants. There can be only one ego tripper in a group, and if you wanna go places with the group, then best is to have no (full-time) ego tripper at all.
And that is indeed what you see a lot: put some random people in a group, and you'll see drama about power, leadership, all the bad human stuff. If you mix boys & girls there's an extra level of tension. Lots of TV reality shows are based on this simple concept.
But most people are basically decent in my experience.
Yeah takes a fair while and many debates to settle on the material usually. Then a singer/new singer comes along ..and it’ll all change .
Ideally the formula is to build a band around the singer I reckon.
Yes the Big Ego,
Last long term band it was the Rush fanatic drummer w the massive kit ( “The Red Beast”) ,,who thought he was Neil Peart. And improv’ed all the fills in every song to ‘improve them’
Always wanted form a Led Zep tribute myself..wanna wear that dragon suit and sling a Les Paul with ‘John Bonham’ thundering behind me. Or a Deep Purple tribute with a keyboardist.
Or an Iggy/Stooges tribute band… or….
Statistics: Posted by Naillerz78 — Sat Aug 17, 2024 1:43 am